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Mr. Doorman June 22nd, 2010 Posted by Hunter Wilson
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At some point in the night whether it be a Tuesday or a Saturday, the person you meet who will make or break your night is not the bartender or that cute girl you want to talk to. It's the door guy. They are the front line for weeding people out who might cause trouble and who abide by the rules of the club and bar. I can remember countless occasions watching my guy friends fret about what to wear: because the worst thing that could ever happen to you is you get excited about going and get denied at the door because you're not wearing black shoes. Everyone knows this feeling, even women. It's the five second stare they take at your license, even though you've been over the age of 21 for longer then you want to mention. The possibility you might not get in and look like a loser is terrifying. So, for those who need help getting on the good side of the door guy here are a few tips. 
When it comes down to it the door guy is just doing his job to keep the venue safe. First rule, dress appropriately.everyone has their own personal style, but at some locations this means trouble if you wear really baggy clothing or conceal your face. What else could you be concealing? They're not targeting you personally, but it's a well known fact that mix a whole bunch of people and drinks together and problems can arise. Always check the dress code before you leave if you're not sure. This can save a lot of time, money and it wont kill you to give your sneakers a break. Ladies also have to watch club attire; some places are more upscale than others. You might look great in your jeans and graphic tee, but going to an upscale club like Butter or Mez vs. college night at Alley Cats are two different worlds and might hold you back from getting in.

Secondly, door guys are people too. Have you ever stood in line and there's someone trying to force his way in with attitude. Chances are he didn't get far. Like the saying goes, you can always attract more flies with honey than vinegar. Personally I'm always nice to the door guy, you never know when you might need help finding a friend or getting a situation diffused. While in line remember to be polite, 'please' and 'thank you' go a long way. I look a lot younger than I am so checking my I.D. always takes longer than usual. In that awkward time ask how they're doing, they'll appreciate it. Definitely when the night is over thank them as well. They may remember you the next time!

Third and the most important, do not argue with them. Okay, so you got turned away because of your outfit or your friend already had, had a bit too much fun. The last thing you want to do it argue. It's the quickest way to get kicked out of a venue for good. As stated before their main job is to keep the place safe. They definitely don't want an angry argumentative person running in and causing trouble. Yes, getting turned away may ruin your night but arguing can ruin your entire nightlife. Bar owners talk. Especially in a city like Charlotte. If you have a problem find out who the manager is that night and contact them off operating hours. Running a bar or club is stressful, but they need you the customer to be happy most importantly and will usually do something to get you to try them out again.

A fourth rule, fake I.D.s are tacky. They're the reason door guys are so tough in the first place. Remember rules are in tact to keep you safe. Underage drinking is a law taken very seriously and I don't think anyone wants to be the sole reason a bar gets shut down for providing to a minor. With that said. I'd rather have a door guy interrogate me than waltz right into a venue where there is no security or door guy at all. Sometimes it can be a hassle but staying safe and having fun are the most important things to keep in mind when going out. So to all of you out there, stay safe, be nice, don't argue and most of all have fun.
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Hunter Wilson
Owner, CarolinaNightlife.com1 Posts
Charles is the Executive Director of Carolina Nightlife and very involved in the nightlife industry in NC and SC. He has been working with venues of all sizes, different brands and products, and countless events across NC and SC for over 8 years.